Life’s Purpose

The other night Luke and I were talking, and he asked me if I knew what my purpose on earth was. I was grateful to discover that I did in fact know, and not only that, but I could put it into words and sentences and it all made sense. Hooray!

I feel like my life’s purpose is to cultivate and regenerate the land that I have access to. I did this when we were renting in Brisbane, and I do this now, just on a much larger and more permanent scale. To me this means making sure the land I have access to is rich with native plants, void of weeds that seek our and destroy native plants and spaces, and also that the land I have access to is profitable – that it produces fruit and vegetables and herbs and all manner of food. Not only that, that the soil I use it’s just full of synthetic fertalisers and chemicals, but that it’s as natural as possible. That I use our food scraps and leaf litter to make compost to feed my plants. The I utilise animals if possible for manure and plant management. Things like this.

And my second purpose ties into the first in the I want to be a wise Jewish woman oracle – one who is a bit of healer, with herbs and potions and what not. But more specifically I want to be engaged in reviving Jewish postpartum rituals and care. But also helping with all women. Basically, if I help every birthing woman I can with meals and a listening ear, or… whatever she needs in her postpartum time, no matter if they’re Jewish or not, I will be fulfilling my life’s purpose. Ideally I would love to help and encourage people to prepare for their own postpartum.

Foster Caring Step One

Last night Luke and I had a 1 hour call with a foster care agency. At this point we (and by “we” I mean, “I” of course…) had made the initial enquiry with the relevant government department, followed up with them, and then had a quick conversation with this foster care agency and read their follow up email which included a link to book this 1 hour call. We started this about 3 weeks ago, and now we’re here. I think the call went well. She has moved us on to the next stage of the process at least, so I think that means we passed this section!

The next stage is a local person from this agency contacting us and arranging a home visit. This is what I’m most nervous about, and I guess this will be the “yes or no” of the situation – if our house is suitable. I’m certainly confident that as people and as a family we’re suitable people (this is what the phone interview was for), it’s just that where we live is a little unconventional in some aspects (rural property, a second dwelling for my parents on the property, etc. so we need to see if what we have works. I also have a little list of things I need to make sure we had working and in place for our house to be suitable.

On the phone we spoke to the lady about if there was much of a need for foster families at the moment, and she said the need was through the roof. She is in Sydney, and I think things are worse there because everyone is in lockdown for going on 7 weeks now, and not many foster parents signed up to homeschool foster kids during a pandemic! So it’s pretty hectic for them. I imagine it’s a little less strained up in QLD, but from what I’ve heard there is still way more foster kids than there are foster families able to take them in.

I’ve had to answer the question of “why are you looking to become a foster carer” a million times now (well, not quite a million…), and I think I’ve finally worked it out. The truth is that one day it just hit me that this is something I “had” to do. You know that flutter in your heart, feeling of sure-ness that even though you know this thing will be hard and stretch you and be uncomfortable that it’s what you’re called to do. Of course I hope that there will be lots of love and happiness and joy in the process of fostering and that we can make a real difference to these kids lives and the lives of their parents. But I’m not so naive as to think that it won’t be a hard slog to get there.

And so other than this somewhat spiritual and esoteric reason for wanting to foster, the more down to earth response is that it breaks my heart to think and hear of children who are unsafe or unloved. I believe that I have a lot of safety and love to give to more children than just the ones I’ve given birth to, and because I see myself as having the ability and desire to love and care for children, I think I should. It’s as simple as that. I can, and so I should.

To be honest, after our call I was a little scared. There was a lot of talk about trauma and disabilities and things like this, and while I know all of these things are possible and perhaps even likely (children aren’t being taken away from their parents because they’re well adjusted and well cared for…), to hear it said so plainly was a reality check.

The next step for us is to talk to my parents about it (they will need to get blue cards when they live on the same property as us), and get an house things in order (we still have to register our pool that got finished a few months ago. Whoops!), and then await the call from the local agency rep. I’m excited, and a little scared, but so grateful to feel like we’re on the right path.

Cheder Activities 17th Tammuz 5781

We’ve started a Co-op Cheder where we live while the local Rabbi is away and working out whether or not he and his family will stay. Of course, no matter what other people in the Jewish community are doing, my own kids need to keep learning about Judaism and studying Hebrew! I figured while I was teaching my kids I may as well teach other kids who are keen! So this is what we did this week:

Important Day Re-cap

Today is a fast day – the 17th of Tammuz. Last week we spoke about this fast day in preparation, as well as the three weeks. So we just had a discussion talking about the 5 terrible things that happened on this day in history, as well as what we do or don’t do on a fast day. Prizes (a single M&M!) for each thing a child contributed.

13 Principles of Faith Activity

We did an introduction to the 13 Principles of Jewish Faith last week, so this was a follow on, consolidating activity. On strips of paper the students had 18 different “principles” they had to read and sort through. Some were ridiculous and funny (Hashem’s favourite food is ice-cream), and others were there to throw them off course like listing some of the 10 commandments! Once they chose what they thought was right I would check and tell them how many they needed to swap. And we continued this until everyone had it correct.

Together we talked about how the principles can be grouped into sections, and we put them in the right order and they glued them on their paper.

I instructed my children to put it on their bedroom walls so that they could check it regularly and commit it to memory.

I expect to do another activity on this topic next week to continue their learning.

You can download this activity for free here.

Shema Activity

This was primarily a translation activity. All the students in the group are familiar with this prayer, but this activity would also be appropriate for students that were unfamiliar with it. All the students in our group were also able to sound out the Hebrew (at least the letters if not the nikud).

I had cut out all the transliterated and English words, and the students had to sort them and connect them to the right Hebrew words. I encouraged students to first match the transliteration, then the English.

Dear Chaya // 12 Months

baby girl lying on a quilt with the letter "C", and "twelve months" written below

Dear Chaya, congratulations on reaching this auspicious milestone! May you have a long life to 120! Amen!

This month we celebrated Sukkot. It was nice to give you some gifts, and spend so much time in the sukkah. I think you enjoyed it! Of course we ended the holiday with Simchat Torah, which we kept pretty low key this year. Covid is still a thing, you know?

You are down to 2 bottles at the start of this month, but by the end you’re only having 1 every few days. It happened pretty quickly, and you just seemed to loose interest in it, and gain a BIG interest in eating lots of food!! You love to eat pureed apple with homemade fermented coconut yoghurt and farex, any type of meat, but especially fish. Sweet things, of course (much to my disgust), and lots of fruit. Berries are a keen favourite. This month you’ve been having rice bubbles with almond milk for breakfast every day which is super cute. And you eat quite a lot! I was worried you would be demanding food as soon as you work up in the morning, because you liked your bottle early, but you’re not. You eat at about 6:30 when I wake up. Which is about 2 hours after you woke up!!

So yeah, the waking up thing. You sleep pretty well in the night. Maybe you wake a bit but you put yourself back to sleep very easily these days. BUT it’s coming up to Summer, and you’re awake when the sun wakes! Blackout blinds are making their way to the top of our priority list very quickly!

You have five teeth now, and the 6th isn’t far off! You are a fairly easier teether, you just get a bit cranky and clingy. Sometimes a little bit of drool, but other than that it’s not too bad.

12 month old toddler

You have five teeth now, and the 6th isn’t far off! You are a fairly easier teether, you just get a bit cranky and clingy. Sometimes a little bit of drool, but other than that it’s not too bad.

You still mostly have 2 naps a day – usually because you sleep easily in the car, and tend to fall asleep as we go out in the mornings, or even just if it’s a morning we have to drive a little further to drop Ahava at kindy. BUT if you stay awake then you just have one long sleep towards the middle of the day, and I like this much better!

You are so so so close to walking full time. You can DEFINITELY walk, and you like to do it a lot, but you don’t always choose to walk. You get better and more confident every day, and I expect any day now you will be a full time walker. It’s been so exciting to watch you develop in this way – you have strong strong legs, and I love to watch you use them. 馃檪

You are a bit of a chatterbox too – always trying to talk to us and tell us exciting things. You LOVE to point, and I really do want to start teaching you some baby sign soon (I’ve been saying this for…. oh, 7 months now?!)

CC you love to smile, and you give AMAZING cuddles. Legit, people comment on what a good cuddler you are! You’re a little wary of strangers at the moment, but still, for the people you know you give massive cuddles. They are so warm to receive and fill my love tank to the brim!

Thanks for being part of our family, our precious Chaya Sefira.

Parsha Noach

At first I was adamant I wanted to try and represent something other than the rainbow for parsha Noach, but then I asked myself… why? I’m just trying to get these done – stay committed to a task for the whole year. I don’t need to make this so complicated! So inspired by a rainbow it is. But thankfully not too conventionally rainbow-y!

Parsha Bereshit 驻专砖讛 讘专讗砖讬转

Back into art journaling. It鈥檚 been niggling at me, and I think the time is right to make with my hands again. I need it I guess.

I鈥檇 love to have a whole Torah worth of art journaling pages – one for each parsha. So that鈥檚 what I鈥檓 trying to achieve. I鈥檝e attempted it many times before and failed, but here we are again!

EDIT: Also, I think when I publush this the Hebrew words in the title are in the wrong order. But they鈥檙e correct on my phone… so bare with me while I work out how WordPress wants me to do that!